Wearing lingerie has long been marketed as a way to increase sexual desire and intimacy in relationships. However, the reality is that it doesn’t always work as intended. In this blog, we’ll explore why wearing lingerie may not be the best solution for building intimacy, provide alternative solutions for building intimacy with consent, and offer […]
As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist, I often hear from clients who are struggling with self-love and self-acceptance, especially when they are single. It’s easy to fall into the trap of believing that our worth is tied to our relationship status or our sexual experiences. But the truth is, loving yourself is essential for […]
As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist, I have worked with many individuals who have experienced infidelity in their relationships. It can be a painful experience that leaves you feeling betrayed, hurt, and confused. However, it’s important to remember that you’re not alone. Many people have been through infidelity and have come out on the […]
In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in the demands of work and personal commitments, leaving little time for self-care and nurturing relationships. Neglected boundaries can have a detrimental impact on our lives, causing overwhelming stress, burnout, and strained relationships. When we fail to set and enforce boundaries, work spills into our […]
The Benefits and Complications of Couples Therapy Couples therapy, often referred to as marriage counseling or relationship counseling, offers partners the opportunity to address and resolve issues within their relationship with the guidance of a trained therapist. Our team of relationship counselors and clinical sexologists at UnderneathTheMoon.com has witnessed firsthand the transformative power of couples […]
Rebuilding Trust in a Relationship After Damage Has Been Done Trust is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship, and when it is broken, the pain and fallout can be profound. Whether due to infidelity, dishonesty, or other breaches of trust, the road to rebuilding it is often long and challenging. As a team of relationship […]
Understanding and Addressing the Issue with Compassion It’s a common fear among couples: you discover that your partner is masturbating to porn instead of having sex with you. It’s easy to feel hurt, rejected, or even angry. However, it’s important to approach the issue with compassion and understanding. In this blog, we’ll explore why your […]
Smell is an incredibly powerful sense, and its role in sexual attraction and arousal is undeniable. From the subtle scents of pheromones to the more obvious fragrances of perfumes and colognes, smell plays a major role in how we perceive each other. But what exactly is the role of smell in sexual attraction? Is it […]
Albert Einstein said, “Life is just like a game. First, you have to learn the rules of the game, and then play it better than anyone else.” This statement is more than a metaphor. It is an acknowledgment of the unpredictability that defines our journey. Life’s game is not always fun; it is filled with […]
Do you feel you and your partner don’t have the same sexual desires? Do you have sexual fantasies you are afraid to share with your partner because they will judge or shame you? Are you acting out unwanted sexual behaviors just to please your partner? Are you finding your relationships consistently are failing and you […]
“Your ‘yes’ means nothing if you can’t say ‘no’.” Do you agree? Consider this: “If you can share a ‘no,’ I can trust your ‘yes.’” Read it twice. It is a very powerful statement. Many of us, especially within Asian cultures, often struggle with saying “no” to others. This can create a sense of obligation […]
As counsellors specialising in relationships and intimacy, we believe that informed consent, trauma-informed care, and enthusiastic consent are essential components of healthy and respectful sexual experiences. Informed consent refers to the process of obtaining clear and explicit agreement from all parties involved in a sexual encounter. This means that all individuals must have a clear […]